That Scribble Is Already Writing — Here's What It's Building
One of my favorite Mother's Days, my son wanted to give me a gift. So he took a paper plate, drew a face of sorts on it, and gave it to me as my present.
It was beautiful to me — that he gifted his art to me. A few crayon loops on a paper plate, and it's still one of the gifts I think about most.
Here's what I didn't fully appreciate in the moment: that "face of sorts" wasn't nothing on the way to something real. It was the real thing. The scribble is already writing.
That "face of sorts" is already writing
When your child grabs a crayon and makes his loops, his hand is learning the moves that letters are made of. The control, the pressure, the start-and-stop, the strokes going in different directions — all of it is forming under those scribbles. The skill he needs is developing while he does the thing that looks like play.
So the worry that he "should be writing real letters by now" can ease. He is writing, in the only order writing comes in. Scribble first. Always scribble first.
The muscle needs the reps
Here's the one thing the scribble phase actually asks of you: let him do it often.
The hand strengthens the way any muscle does — through repetition. The more he scribbles, colors, and loops, the more those small hand muscles build, and the more ready he is to grow into the pencil grip that fits his age. You don't speed this up by handing him letters early. You support it by giving him plenty to scribble on, plenty of times. Reps, not pressure. That's the whole assignment.
Don't rush past the creative process — it's the gift
That paper plate reminded me of something easy to miss when you're focused on milestones: the scribble phase is also him expressing himself. He wasn't practicing pencil control when he drew that face. He was making me something. He was proud to.
So get curious with him instead of anxious over him:
- What does that scribble mean to him? Ask. The answer is often a whole story.
- Why did he reach for that color? Does he have a favorite?
- Did he use fifty colors on one page — or color the whole thing blue, edge to edge?
There's no wrong answer in any of it. However he did it, he's learning — and he's telling you who he is. That's not a phase to rush. That's a gift to receive.
The readiness strokes hiding in his scribbles
Every loop is practice for a named pre-writing milestone — the strokes that become letters:
Whatever it looks like, it's a step toward writing
A child who scribbles is a child practicing to write — every time, no matter how the scribble turns out. The loops become control. The control becomes strokes. The strokes become letters. You don't have to make that happen faster. You just have to let it happen, and hand him something worth scribbling on.
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Before you go
I read every note. If this helped — or you're not sure where your child is on the road to kindergarten — I'd love to hear from you at kasandra@dextedoodle.shop.